A destination wedding is often seen as the ultimate luxury. Saying “I do” against a backdrop of turquoise seas, rolling vineyards, or historic landmarks can be unforgettable. To help you decide if it’s the right choice, we’ve outlined the most common pros and cons we discuss with our clients. While there are challenges to consider, our experience shows that the positives almost always outweigh the negatives—and we’re here to help you every step of the way.
Pros of a Destination Wedding
A unique aesthetic
One of the biggest draws is the chance to have a completely different backdrop from the typical venues at home. Whether you’re dreaming of a beach ceremony or a mountaintop setting, destination weddings offer a one-of-a-kind atmosphere.
Potential cost savings
Although they may sound costly, destination weddings can sometimes save money. Guest lists often shrink when travel is involved, meaning fewer people to cater for and lower overall expenses. Many venues also include perks such as a complimentary room for the couple, discounted honeymoon packages, or anniversary offers. Guests may also benefit from group rates when staying at the venue or affiliated hotels.
More predictable weather
Unlike the unpredictable weather in the UK (or other changeable climates), a tropical or sunny destination gives you a much better chance of enjoying the weather you’re hoping for. And if you prefer a wintry backdrop, you can still count on a reliably snowy setting abroad.
Built-in honeymoon
When you marry abroad, your honeymoon often begins right after the ceremony—no need for additional flights or planning. You can simply relax and enjoy newlywed life straight away.
A more intimate celebration
Because fewer people are likely to attend, you end up with a smaller guest list. This can create a more personal, meaningful celebration surrounded by only your closest family and friends. If this is what you’re looking for, don’t let this stop you from inviting as many people as you desire!
A holiday for everyone
Your wedding turns into a holiday for your guests too. They’ll get to enjoy a beautiful location and create lasting memories beyond the wedding day.
Unique photography opportunities
The scenery is often breathtaking—whether it’s tropical beaches, historic cities, or dramatic landscapes. This gives you wedding photos that look completely different from traditional at-home weddings.
Less family politics
With a smaller guest list, there’s less pressure to invite distant relatives or friends-of-friends. This can make your planning feel simpler and more aligned with your wishes as a couple.
Special experiences
Destination weddings allow you to incorporate local traditions, music, or cuisine, making your day truly unique and culturally rich.
Longer celebration
Unlike a one-day wedding at home, destination weddings often turn into a weekend (or even week-long) celebration, giving you more time to spend with loved ones.
Memorable for guests
Your wedding becomes not just a ceremony but an experience your guests will talk about for years to come—it feels like a once-in-a-lifetime event.
Cons of a Destination Wedding
Guest availability
Not everyone will be able to attend due to travel costs, work commitments, or family responsibilities, which can be disappointing if certain loved ones can’t make the trip. To help, we suggest creating a priority list of “must-have” guests and checking their availability before finalising dates. Sending save-the-dates at least a year in advance also gives guests plenty of time to plan.
Unfamiliar suppliers
Not knowing local suppliers can be a challenge—choosing florists, photographers, or caterers from afar can feel overwhelming. (This is where professional destination wedding planners like ourselves come in handy—we’re here to make that part stress-free!)
Cuisine limitations
Depending on the country, the food options may differ from what you’re used to at home. While this can be exciting, it’s worth considering if you or your guests have tastes or dietary requirements. However, our team has contacts with plenty of caterers, and we will always try our bests alongside the venue to find the best cuisine or catering for you.
✨ Final Thoughts
A destination wedding can be magical, offering breathtaking settings and unforgettable memories, alongside a few challenges. The key is deciding what matters most to you as a couple—whether that’s having every guest present or celebrating in a location that reflects your vision. With the right planning and support, your wedding abroad can feel effortless and truly personal. Our team specialises in creating bespoke destination wedding packages with one-to-one guidance, so you can focus on enjoying your day while we handle the details